The day before a flight, I’ve already mentally checked in. First step? I set an alarm for exactly 24 hours before departure. That’s when online check-in opens—and if I haven’t pre-booked a seat, I’m ready to pounce on a good one. Usually, I only do this during quieter travel periods when I know I’ve got a decent shot at my favourite: a window seat. If I suspect the flight will be full, I don’t risk it—because being stuck in a middle seat for 10+ hours? No thank you.
Of course, if you absolutely want to make sure you’re sitting with your partner, child, or simply not in the middle of a row of strangers, you can pre-book your seat in advance. Expect to pay anywhere from $21 to $150 depending on the seat type and airline. A small price to pay for peace of mind—and no last-minute stress.
Now let’s talk about one of my favourite travel hacks: buying out the seat next to you. Some airlines allow you to purchase the middle seat for around $100, and it’s one of the most cost-effective ways to feel like you’ve upgraded without actually booking business class. I call it “budget luxury”—and once you’ve flown with that little bubble of personal space, you’ll never go back.
I usually opt for a seat about two-thirds of the way down the plane. I’m not in a rush to get off—my luggage won’t be rushing either—and fun fact: the rear of the aircraft statistically has slightly better safety odds. So I sit back, relax, and avoid the mad dash to the exit.
Now here’s something I’ve learned the hard way: bulkhead seats may seem like a dream with all that legroom, but if you're built a little wider like I am, they’re not ideal. The armrests are fixed and solid because they house the tray tables—so while your legs are happy, your hips are not. It can feel like squeezing into a sardine tin. Definitely not the best choice if you value space everywhere, not just below the knees.
If you’re craving a true upgrade—business class, lie-flat seats, the works—the time to try is when you first book your flight. Many airlines offer bid upgrades now. Here’s my tip: don’t bid the lowest possible amount. Go at least $50–$100 above the minimum and you’ll beat out 90% of other bidders. But only do this on long-haul flights—Africa, South America, Asia—not a quick hop where all you’re really getting is a fancy sandwich and an extra inch of space.
But none of that matters if you’ve booked the cheapest ticket on the page. Please don’t. Those rock-bottom fares might not include checked luggage, seat selection, or even carry-on bags in extreme cases. You’ll be locked out of bidding for upgrades and miss out on basic conveniences. Even Air Canada now severely restricts their lowest fares. Always go one fare class up—it’s still economy, but with far fewer headaches and much more flexibility.
Speaking of comfort, here’s something I swear by: dress in layers. Airplane cabins are notorious for being unpredictable—hot one minute, freezing the next. And if you’re in a window seat (which I usually am), you’ll really feel it. On Dreamliners especially, the air conditioning blows in from the sidewalls, so that dreamy view comes with an arctic draft. A cozy scarf or hoodie is your best friend.
And yes—I truly, madly, deeply love flying. I’ve even said the smell of airline fuel is almost like an aphrodisiac. I wouldn’t fly as often or as far as I do if I didn’t genuinely enjoy the journey as much as the destination. Airports, boarding calls, the clink of the drinks cart—I love it all.
I even have my favourite airlines. Top of the list? Fiji Airways. Their business class was next-level: cream leather lie-flat seats that were genuinely comfortable, a calming cabin environment, and food that I’m still dreaming about. Even their economy class was impressive. But their business class? Absolutely my all-time favourite.
Before I wrap up, here’s a fun tech tip: if you’re tracking a flight—yours or someone else’s—just text the flight number to yourself or someone with an iPhone. It’ll turn into a clickable link. Tap it, and it shows you live info: where the flight is, if it’s delayed, what gate it’s at. I use this constantly and it’s incredibly helpful, especially when picking someone up or connecting to another flight.
A few more of my personal flying must-dos:
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Keep your seatbelt fastened at all times. Turbulence doesn’t give you a heads-up.
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Bring an empty water bottle and refill it after security—hydration is key.
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Noise-cancelling headphones: absolutely worth the investment.
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Pack a pen—because customs forms still exist, and no one ever has a pen when you need one.
Flying is still the safest and most thrilling way to travel. And with a few smart choices, it can be so much more comfortable too. Here’s to smooth skies, well-chosen seats, and upgrades that come through just when you need them most.
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