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Tips to avoid getting duped by a romance scam this Valentine’s Day

With Valentine's Day quickly approaching, beware of phishing scams that prey on hearts and wallets alike.
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They say that love is blind. But don’t let the season of love cover your eyes to potential tricks.

It's no secret that “phishing” scams are on the rise, lurking behind the allure of online connections. These scams involve perpetrators masquerading as genuine individuals, aiming to extract sensitive information or money from unsuspecting victims.

One prevalent form of deception is the romance scam. In today's digital age, where dating apps, websites, and social media platforms facilitate connections, scammers find fertile ground to prey on individuals seeking genuine companionship.

What is a romance scam?

A romance scam is a type of deception where individuals, often operating online, establish fake romantic relationships with the intent of exploiting victims emotionally and financially. Perpetrators typically initiate contact through dating websites, apps, or social media platforms, gradually gaining the victim's trust before soliciting money or sensitive information under false pretenses.

These scams often involve elaborate stories of personal hardship, fabricated professions of love, and requests for financial assistance for supposed emergencies or travel expenses, ultimately leaving victims emotionally and financially devastated.

Signs to look out for:

While the platforms may vary, the romance scam scenarios are usually the same. The scam typically unfolds with a person initiating contact, gradually cultivating trust through regular conversations. However, they often maintain excuses for avoiding in-person meetings, citing circumstances such as overseas work assignments, military deployments, or remote job locations.

Expressions of affection often surface prematurely in the conversation. Once trust is established, the inevitable request for financial assistance follows. They may fabricate stories about urgent medical expenses for a family member, legal entanglements, or travel expenses to facilitate a rendezvous. Alternatively, they may dangle promises of lucrative investment opportunities, enticing victims with visions of wealth.

The payment methods they propose often raise red flags. They might urge victims to purchase gift cards or transact using cryptocurrency, both of which offer anonymity and irreversibility.

What to do if you get caught in one:

Recognizing the signs of a potential scam is crucial. If you suspect fraudulent activity, cease communication immediately and report the incident to local law enforcement agencies and relevant authorities such as the Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre.

Protecting oneself from online deception requires vigilance and skepticism, especially during periods of heightened emotional vulnerability. By staying informed and exercising caution, individuals can navigate the digital landscape with greater resilience against fraudulent schemes.

Find more tips to protect yourself online at getcybersafe.ca.